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I Miss My Dad

Dear friend
I am nearly 55, to some getting on, but to me when I remember when I lost my father (MY Dad) I was 20, its yesterday. Many do not even think about it moments after never mind years later and no harm. in that retrospect maybe I wish I could have thought that way. What can or should I say I want to touch your arm and say words that make it better - impossible but!

My father was not perfect, and that surly describes me as I love my sons, but right or wrong I am sure he loved me and wanted me to go on. Time (remember my age 55) does not cure, but to the degree of going on, although you may think you cant you will because that is what they want - remember time did not wait for them and although to me, at this moment so sad, it does not wait for anyone, that truth will help

So what do you think your Dad would say I love you - for sure - sometimes I wish I had a bit more time because I really thought ( until I came across this site your love and my sadness) ) I would live for ever and have all that time. Well none of us have - so what do you want say to someone wife - husband - son - daughter -father mother and possibly a hundred others- please do not be afraid trust me its only to late when the silence of death is a reality.

I was always a shy person always thinking of others working to earn to give ( too busy for me) - generous? of what money certainly not time nor enough words.

Go for it now trust me tomorrow is far to Iate - give give and in truth I got little but never asked for anything but near the end it does not matter

I have just realised that what some of you thought of your Dad was what now why not try NOW not after to Mum or Dad brother sister, family or Friend understanding love help and forgiveness eventually they will realise you do not want anything, you will find a magic few do and if they don't you hopefully will May your God be kind and if you have none may one find and love you - James

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